Personality Will Never Change

I went out with Allie and her dad today. On the way back home, I told him that I went to Linkin Park's concert Friday night. I told him that my student bought the ticket for me, but I didn't go with him since he is kind of bothering now. I was trying to start a short conversation but he just replied that relationship is the only thing I am worrying about. He said I have no idea how depressed he is because he gave up an opportunity for being a manager with very high salary because he can't find anyone to take care of Allie. When I heard that, I just kept silent. I didn't know how to reply and I can't talk about this with neither my parents or Josh. I know what I will hear.

I want to have Allie with me aside for sure, but he doesn't want me to take care of her. I think he doesn't want to lose anything or anyone. Too bad that he is still the man I know, personality will never change.